How many times have you come across a frustrated guy having a bad time with his woman, or seen a frustrated woman having a torrid time with her man? If the answer to the question is "a lot", it still is an understatement.
To make things easier for you guys and gals out there, I decided to ask both males and females what they thought were the top 4 qualities the opposite sex should possess. I also asked what they thought the opposite sex would want to see in them, but to cut things short, aaaaand to exclude things like "women are only after the money these days" or "men are stupid, they only care about boobs" from my piece, I decided to stick to including the first part only. So here it goes:
The top 4 qualities women look for in men are:
1.Honesty: when it comes to lying, men are experts. But guess what, so are women. While guys have to study body language courses to look for clues in someone's gestures, women have that superpower built in. When your gestures and words don't match, you're doomed. If you happen to get away with a lie but eventually get caught, you're also doomed. This is easier said than done, but it's really quite simple. Don't lie! Be honest!
2.Sense of humor: everyone has problems in his/her life. When you meet a girl, try to make her laugh. It will change her mood and she will associate you with positive things. I'm not suggesting you to be Chris Rock or a circus clown, but I am saying that you shouldn't take everything seriously. When you're hanging out, have a laugh, crack a joke, have fun! Honestly, I've met some guys out there who look like they're attending a funeral...on their night out.
3.Sensitivity: why do you think dogs are man's (and woman's) best friend? Dogs sense. Dogs know if you're sad or happy or energetic, and act accordingly. Sorry bro, you can't be as sensitive as her dog, but you can look for clues and get a feeling of what a she is going through. Look at her body language, the brightness on her face, her words, her temper, etc... There are many characteristics that define a woman, it's easy to notice one or more that aren't there on a given day and try to feel her.
4.Confidence: so many times have I seen guys hesitating or not standing tall in front of a girl. That's a major turn off guys. To give you some hope, if you approach a girl with some confidence, you're good to go. Trust me, women get approached a thousand times a day by chumps who are so uncomfortable around girls that they sometimes forget their names. So when a woman finally meets a guy with some confidence, she will actually smile to him. Also, if you meet a woman who is smarter than you, accept it, and value it, because there are some really smart women out there, and you might have just met one of them. By the way, this will prove your confidence in your own abilities.
Top 4 Qualities Men Look for in the Opposite Sex
By : Vanig Bostanian
