Love can be blinding sometimes. You won't realize you haven't been truly happy unless you let go. Letting go is one of the hardest thing a person has to do, but staying in a toxic relationship is even harder.
The question is... is it time to let go ?
1) Does this person want you to be someone you're not? Well, time to say bye-bye!Let's just put it this way...It's easier to fill an empty space in your life where someone else used to be, than it is to fill the empty space inside yourself where YOU used to be.
2) Actions speak louder than words! Always remember that... If this person isn't putting the effort and just talking the talk then time to walk the walk away from him/her! You deserve so much better than just words being thrown your way with no actual action.
3) Trust. What a powerful word, huh? No relationship will ever work out if it's not founded on trust, from both sides. Once someone shows you otherwise, or breaks that bridge connecting you to one another, it'll be really hard to build it back. Yes, you can build it back if given another chance but this time, it has to be extra hard. Made out of concrete and metal. Otherwise, build that bridge to the door and get the hell out.
4) Happiness. Being in a relationship is supposed to add something to your life. Magic, joy and love. If your sacrificing your happiness FOR this relationship, then you are just bringing unnecessary and unwelcomed negativity in your life. It's always better to be alone with dignity than in a relationship that constantly requires you to sacrifice your happiness and self-respect.
5) Emotional and Physical.Does he love your mind? Does he love your heart? Or does he only love what's on the surface of it? People who are only attracted to you because of your pretty face or nice body won't stay by your side forever. But the people who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you.
Never let go of hope, though. Remember what you deserve and keep pushing forward. Someday all the pieces will come together.
